I don’t like homework. This is honestly kind of funny because I want to be a teacher after college and will most likely give homework. The only reason I will be giving homework is because with math specifically, you need to practice to be able to understand the concepts. This by all means does not mean teachers should assign hours upon hours of homework a night because students need to have time to be themselves without freaking out about school work. My idea is that at most students should have a total of one hour of homework a night. I feel like that is reasonable as long as the student doesn’t procrastinate, it shouldn’t take that long. When I was in high school, my entire life revolved around school. Sure, I did two sports in high school with a total of eight seasons of sports and was at school some nights until 7 or 8. But I always spent most of my time doing homework. When I would get home, I would get to homework right away then usually go to bed around midnight. Then I would always wake up at 5 am to finish my homework. AND even then, I didn’t get around to doing every single thing of my homework. I just don’t understand why teachers think it alright to do this. I get that most teachers hand out a syllabus with all the homework for the entire year and ‘you can get a head start on it’, but should I spend ten hours one day ‘getting a head start’? The answer is no. Students need to chance to breath with confusing times in their lives. Like if their parents are getting divorced, they are going to therapy, they don’t live with their parents, they are sick, etc. I feel like most times teachers may have no idea what is going on at someone’s home, but thinks its alright that since they slept in class to give them another assignment, where they might not have a bed to sleep in at night. And then another situation comes up when students are now in college. I’m not sure this is a hundred percent correct, but I remember one of my professors last semester that every hour we have of class we should spend two hours doing homework and/or studying. So, right now I am taking eighteen credit hours. So I guess that means outside of these seven classes I am taking (one of them is zero credit hours, but still I attend every week [or at least until my school shut down]) I should be doing thirty-six hours of studying/homework. Now, let’s think about it mathematically (lol I’m a math major). If I’m spending eighteen hours in class every week with thirty-six hours on top of that studying, I am spending 54 hours a week on school. So, how much time does that leave for me? Let’s think about it again, there are 24 hours in a day and seven days in a week so, there are one hundred and fourteen hours for me. But, that seems like a lot, let’s account for sleep. People say that adults need about 7 to 9 hours of sleep a night. So, lets take the average and we get eight. So, if I have one hundred and fourteen hours to myself, but need 56 hours of sleep a week, I have 58 hours to myself. But, that still seems like too much. It feels like too much because most students are involved with clubs, sports, etc. on campus or in their school to stay involved and meet people. Sometimes, people join these things to add to their applications, so that they have a chance of impressing a college showing what they can bring to their school. So, right now I am involved in three clubs. It takes up about 6-9 hours a week. Let’s take the average again, so that’s about 7.5 hours. So, in total we have about 50.5 hours to yourself. OH WAIT! There’s still this funny thing called being healthy. If I need thirty minutes of physical activity a day and eating a meal takes twenty minutes, then I have forty hours a week to myself. This is less than two days, while spending all my time towards school takes more than two days. I understand that I am paying for this education and I want it, but why do I need to spend thirty-six hours out of class working on class work? One of my professors only assigns one homework assignment a week that usually takes me an hour in total and I am doing the best in this class compared to all my others. I should have time to be myself without worrying about every little thing in school. Students can’t be bombarded with work because then they won’t complete it and then they’ll be doing even worse than where they would normally be because sadly enough homework is usually a big part of grades. My teachers in high school claimed it was a way to earn easy points to help boost your grade, but all I thought about it was that it took me hours on end to earn twenty percent of my grade, but tests were usually forty percent, so was it really helping? There is a large debate on whether or not homework should be a thing for students anymore. And frankly I don’t know what should happen. I do know that elementary school students should not have homework. They can have out of school work with their parents like making dinner to teach them about fractions or something fun along those lines, but homework when you’re five is detrimental because for some reason it always seems to end in the child or parent crying. In middle school, it should be introduced, but maybe not have homework every night. Then in high school it should grow because students need to become more independent learners, but again not bombard them with hours upon hours a night of homework. So, this was a rant session and I’ll be surprised if anyone made it this far, but I am just sick of homework. So, I want to say here that I will not assign one hundred problems of math as homework when I am a teacher, but maybe ten good ones that surround the lessons that were taught that day. Homework just needs to go away. Thank you.
Tag: school
#5
What would I tell my 10 year old self today?
When I was 10, I was told a lot of different things from a lot of different people. One of the things that always comes straight to my mind is what one of my elementary school teachers told my mom. She called my mom on a Friday afternoon to inform her that she believes that I am slow. She wanted to put me on a ‘special’ program to help me do better in class. Some would think that this is completely understandable, but it wasn’t. She left my mom a voicemail with this information then refused to answer my mom’s hundreds of calls in return. It wasn’t until the next week that she explained that I don’t pay attention in class, I don’t answer the questions she asks me, and she doesn’t think I can hear her. So, I got a hearing test, turned out I had perfect hearing. The real reason why I didn’t want to answer her was because I was shy. That’s it. But, she still put me on this ‘special’ program. For instance, if I went off to ‘la-la land’ in class (got distracted) then I had to make a tally mark, if I was good that day then I got a sticker, and a lot more things along these lines. This teacher made me believe that I was stupid. I literally still have nightmares about to this day. She humiliated me as a child and I carry it with me everyday.
This haunts me and I don’t know how I made it out of that class. But I want to give my 10 year old self some advice. You are smart. Who cares if you are quiet or too scared to speak in front of a class. You know you are smart and even though you were treated like you are stupid, you are smart. Don’t let people bring you down because they are not your biggest enemy, you are. If you start to believe that they are telling the truth, you will start telling yourself this. But don’t. You will do great things. I believe in you.
#4
Sometimes life is the worst. I really wish everything would just go how I planned it. Like remembering to write these posts. I thought this would be a great way to help me express my thoughts, even if it is to people that I can’t see. But this is turning out to be harder than expected. Stress has been a daunting thing in my life. I have been struggling with understanding how to control it, but somehow cannot succeed. I have taken on a little bit more than I can chew this semester. I have decided to take on eighteen credit hours when I have never done this, got involved with two new clubs, and started an officer position in my sorority. I thought this would be a great way to immerse myself within the University of Dayton community and become more connected with people. I planned it out to be this glamorous experience that I would be so proud of myself for doing. But so far it is turning out to be the opposite. I am having a hard time trying to decide where and how to spend my time. I think of myself and holding school to a higher standard considering the fact that I want to become a teacher, but this priority has seemed to lesson this semester. I am disappointed that I have allowed this to happen and it needs to change. I have been giving more time to my sorority, the clubs I’m a part of, and overall allowing myself to stress out. This isn’t how I want my college experience to go. I wish it would go how I planned it all out in my head. To get a 4.0 GPA, succeed in my position in my sorority, volunteer around the city, have fun with friends, and so much more. But realistically this cannot happen. Life doesn’t work how you plan it and it is hard to accept this reality. I like to think that everything happens for a reason, but for some reason I am having a hard time believing that not doing well in school, being stressed out by something I used to enjoy, not getting along with roommates, and a lot more is for a reason. I just have to trust that everything will work out in the end, but we’ll see.